Unwritten Airplane Etiquette to Know for a Smoother Flight

The airplane. A metal tube hurtling through the sky, carrying us with family, friends, and strangers to various destinations.

While airlines lay out the official rules, a whole other set of unwritten airplane etiquette keeps the peace at 30,000 feet.

Pre-Flight Preparation

The Boarding Process

Boarding can be a chaotic dance. Avoid becoming "that person" who cuts the line or shoves their way through.

Respect the designated boarding group and wait your turn patiently. If you have a carry-on that won't fit in the overhead bin, consider gate-checking it to avoid a carry-on Tetris battle.

Your Baggage

Overhead bin space is a precious commodity. Be mindful of the size and number of your carry-on bags. If you have a larger bag, board early to secure space.

Place your belongings strategically, leaving room for others. Consider backpacks that fit under the seat in front of you to free up overhead space for rolling luggage.

When the Seatbelt Sign is On

The Reclining Seat

Reclining your seat is a right, but courtesy is key. Avoid reclining abruptly when the passenger behind you is actively using their tray table or eating.

Consider reclining gradually and checking if it inconveniences the person behind you. If they're sleeping, headphones on, or look busy, a slight recline might be acceptable.

Communication goes a long way; a simple "Excuse me, would you mind if I reclined a bit?" can avoid silent fuming.

Fight For the Armrest

The armrest war is a frequent flyer dilemma. On flights with three-seater rows, the window and aisle seats have a stronger claim to the armrest.

For middle seat sufferers, politeness prevails. If the window or aisle person isn't using the armrest, feel free to share the space politely.

Etiquette in the Air

Noise Control

Airplanes are not concert halls. Be mindful of the volume of your conversations and phone calls.

Use headphones when listening to music or watching videos. Crying babies are an unfortunate reality, but parents can try soothing techniques with minimal disruption.

Fragrance Free Zone

Strong perfumes and colognes can be overwhelming in an enclosed space. Opt for lighter scents or avoid them altogether to ensure everyone has a pleasant olfactory experience.

Common Courtesy

Pack light, but not at the expense of your neighbors. Avoid bringing strong-smelling food onboard, and dispose of trash discreetly. If you have a cough or cold, be courteous and cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing.

Keep Your Shoes On

While airplane floors may seem tempting for tired feet, keeping your shoes on is a matter of courtesy and hygiene. Airplanes are breeding grounds for germs, and used chewing gum or spilled beverages can lurk unseen.

Not only does it protect your own feet, but it prevents unpleasant surprises for your fellow passengers. Opt for comfortable socks and slippers you can wear over your shoes if you need some extra foot cushioning.

The Window Shade

Window shades are another area where consideration is key. The window seat passenger technically has control, but respect for others plays a role. If you prefer a bright and airy cabin, politely ask your neighbors if they mind keeping the shade open.

For those who prefer to sleep or avoid harsh sunlight, a gentle request to lower the shade is perfectly acceptable. Finding a middle ground, like partially lowering the shade, can sometimes be a good compromise.

Bathroom Etiquette

Be Speedy

Airplane bathrooms are small. Be mindful of others waiting and limit your time inside. Avoid hogging the facilities for elaborate makeup touch-ups or lengthy phone calls.

Airplane bathrooms lack the soundproofing of a five-star hotel. Be discreet with noise and avoid lingering conversations within the confines of the lavatory.

Deplaning Do's and Don'ts

The Unbuckling Frenzy

As soon as the plane lands, the urge to unbuckle and grab your bag can be strong. However, patience is key. Wait for the signal from the flight attendant before unbuckling and gathering your belongings. This allows for a smoother deplaning process for everyone.

Carry-On Conundrum

Standing in the aisle with your carry-on after the plane lands blocks the flow of deplaning passengers. Store your carry-on back in the overhead bin if possible, or wait until you're closer to the aisle before retrieving it.

Be Kind

A smile, a "thank you" to the flight attendants, and a bit of understanding go a long way. Remember, everyone onboard is just trying to reach their destination.

By following these unwritten rules and showing a little kindness, we can all contribute to a more pleasant flying experience for ourselves and everyone else.

These are just guidelines, not hard and fast rules. Situations may arise that require flexibility and understanding. Use your best judgment, be courteous, and aim to make your fellow passengers' journeys as smooth as possible. Happy flying!