Sindy HoxhaFeb 21, 2025 5 min read

Taylor Swift & Blake Lively: Are They Still Friends?

Taylor Swift, center, watches the teams before the NFL Super Bowl 58 football game between the San Francisco 49ers and the Kansas City Chiefs with Ice Spice and Blake Lively on Sunday, Feb. 11, 2024, in Las Vegas. (AP Photo/Ashley Landis)

Blake Lively and Taylor Swift have one of the most adored friendships in Hollywood. We’re talking vacationing in Australia together, sneaky Easter eggs in music videos, spontaneous pizza nights in Brooklyn—the works. Their bond has always been rock solid. Until now.

Because lately? Things feel... off.

Ever since Blake Lively and Taylor Swift's friendship got tangled up in that messy Justin Baldoni lawsuit, fans have been on high alert. It all started with those leaked texts where Blake allegedly called Taylor one of her “dragons.” Sounds cool, right? Well, not when you read between the lines. Suddenly, rumors started swirling: Was Taylor upset? Did Blake say something shady? Are Blake Lively and Taylor Swift still friends?

It’s time to break this whole thing down. 

A Friendship Built for the Ages (Or Was It?)

Look, it’s no secret that Taylor Swift and Blake Lively have been close for years. This isn’t some "Oh, we met at an awards show and now we’re besties!" kind of thing. These two go way back.

  • 2015: Blake publicly shuts down feud rumors by posting a glowing message about Taylor’s 1989 tour.

  • 2017: Taylor puts Blake’s daughter James’s voice in Gorgeous.

  • 2021: Blake directs the I Bet You Think About Me music video, because when Taylor trusts you with her art? That’s next-level friendship.

  • 2023: The two are glued at the hip—concerts, NFL games, casual NYC hangs, you name it.

Fans loved their Blake Lively and Taylor Swift friendship because it felt real. No staged PR moments. No forced interactions. Just two wildly successful women who genuinely had each other’s backs.

But now? That vibe is shifting.

The Justin Baldoni Mess: How Did Taylor Get Pulled Into This?

The lead actress Blake Lively. Gala premiere of the movie It Ends With Us in Imperial in Copenhagen, Friday the 9th of August 2024. Friday 9th of August 2024. (Photo: Nils Meilvang/Scanpix 2024) (Photo by Ritzau Scanpix/Sipa USA)(Sipa via AP Images)

So here’s where things get juicy. Blake Lively signed on to star in and produce It Ends With Us, the adaptation of Colleen Hoover’s novel. Seems harmless, right? Nope.

Behind the scenes, Blake and director Justin Baldoni clashed. Hard. Legal battles kicked off, and in the middle of it all—BAM—text messages surfaced.

One text, allegedly from Blake to Justin, read:

"If you ever get around to watching Game of Thrones, you’ll appreciate that I’m Khaleesi, and like her, I happen to have a few dragons."

Then came the most interesting part:

"For better or worse, but usually for better. Because my dragons also protect those I fight for."

That’s when people went full detective mode. The speculation? Blake was referring to Ryan Reynolds and Taylor Swift as her dragons. Which sounds powerful. Legendary. Cool.

Except, according to insiders, Taylor Swift wasn’t thrilled about it.

Is Taylor Distancing Herself?

Okay, so maybe one weird text doesn’t mean the end of a friendship. But here’s where things get weird:

  • Blake Lively was missing from Taylor Swift’s Super Bowl suite in 2025. Yep, the same VIP box that had Ice Spice and the entire Kelce-Swift entourage? No Blake.

  • Taylor hasn’t posted about Blake recently. Taylor, who’s known for hyping up her friends any chance she gets? Radio silence.

  • A source allegedly told Page Six that Taylor "doesn’t appreciate being referred to as one of Blake’s dragons." (If there’s one thing we know, it’s that Taylor doesn’t take kindly to being spoken about in ways she doesn’t approve of.)

The question now is: Is this just temporary awkwardness, or is this the beginning of the end?

Taylor Swift’s History With Friendships: A Pattern?

Taylor Swift performs during “The Eras Tour” in Vancouver, British Columbia, Friday, Dec. 6, 2024. (Darryl Dyck/The Canadian Press via AP)

Look, we’ve seen Taylor Swift navigate tricky friendship situations before. She’s not the type to blast people publicly, but when she distances herself? Oh, you feel it.

  • Remember Karlie Kloss? Besties one day, strangers the next. Taylor never said a word—she just stopped showing up.

  • Remember when Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato had that weird tension? Taylor quietly stayed out of it.

  • Remember the entire Katy Perry feud? It took years before that got patched up, and Taylor definitely threw shade along the way.

If Taylor really is upset about the “dragon” comment, she might just ghost Blake the way she’s done with others in the past. No dramatic public fallout. No statement. Just... silence.

And silence? That speaks volumes.

What’s Next for Blake and Taylor?

Right now, we’re in limbo.

Neither Blake nor Taylor have addressed the drama head-on. Maybe they’re ignoring the noise. Maybe they’re having private conversations. Or maybe... just maybe... their once-tight friendship is unraveling in slow motion.

Here’s what we do know:

  1. Taylor is in her "no-nonsense" era. She’s in love, she’s taking over the world, and she’s got no time for anything messy.

  2. Blake is juggling legal drama. And if the rumors are true, she might not even realize how much this has affected Taylor.

  3. Fans are watching closely. If these two don’t reunite soon, the “Blake Lively and Taylor Swift friends?” the question might turn into “Blake Lively and Taylor Swift ex-friends?”

Only time will tell. But if there’s one thing we’ve learned from Taylor Swift’s history, it’s this: When she starts stepping back from a friendship? There’s usually no coming back.

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